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Questions Answered:

1. I am 29 years old and, up until the last couple of years, I have never had any examples in my life of a good, healthy, and truly in love couple in marriage or other romantic relationships. For most of that time I had the worst possible examples available. Even on a spiritual path I have not seen what I would one day hope to have in a marriage. I feel like I’m starting at the furthest possible end of the spectrum as my relationships have always been very unhealthy and ultimately unloving and dysfunctional. I am seeing a therapist and talking to her about my messed up belief systems with men. Part of me doesn’t believe it could be a reality to have a beautiful, life-long relationship, at least not with my baggage. I would like to know from You what it would take in order for me (specifically) to have that kind of love (which so many people seem to not have).
2. My grandmother just died and I know I should feel very sad, but I was unable to cry about it.  I have heard You speak about “feeling is healing,” and I want to know what I can do to feel the sadness I know is within me.